A more human, lev-centered way of dating.
According to a 2023 Pew Research Study, only 24% of straight and gay adults under 30 met their partner online. The percentage drops to 10% for straight adults over 30.
Most people don’t meet their person through endless swiping—they meet through shared spaces, values, and the opportunity to deepen their connection over time.
That’s where we come in.
We provide a community-centered matchmaking experience that prioritizes affordability, inclusivity, intentionality, and genuine care and connection.
Join the Luv List (free!)
Create your complimentary profile by completing a dynamic questionnaire, powered by LEVEL™. You’ll be taken on a journey of self-discovery to clarify your core values, ideal partner, and lifestyle goals.
In addition to being part of the private Luv with Lev network, you can also opt to have your profile be visible to other matchmakers who are searching for their clients, offering you more opportunities to meet potential partners.
There is no guarantee of matches—but we prioritize quality over quantity, and every introduction is made with care.
Want more support?
If you’re feeling ready for a search on your behalf, we offer paid matchmaking.
This is a more personalized approach—but still rooted in our community-based model. Unlike traditional matchmaking services, this is designed to be lower cost and less intensive, while still offering thoughtful, curated introductions and support and guidance along the way.
Because of the time and care involved, we only work with a limited number of paid members at a time.
To learn more, create your free profile and indicate your interest, and we’ll follow up with more details.
Want support with your dating approach?
Check out our Dating Strategy Lab sessions.
Why pay for matchmaking?
Tailored Matches
We get to know you, your values, and what you are looking for in a relationship. Our matchmaking service is highly personalized, making connections based on your preferences and goals.
Jewish-Centered
The Luv List is filled with daters of all Jewish backgrounds and practices so we can find you matches who share your vision for the kind of Jewish life you want to build together.
Inclusive & Supportive
The Jewish community is diverse. Inclusive of your other identities, beliefs, and preferences, we are here to provide support and guidance throughout your dating journey.
What the community is saying
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Miriam's warm heart and kindness of spirit are apparent from the moment you meet her. She's the most attentive listener, and she also has this special knack for hearing the things you might not be saying, which is what makes her advice so intentional and meaningful. I walk away from every conversation feeling more knowledgeable, empowered, and valued.
Matchmaking Participant
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Miriam is caring, thoughtful, and supportive. She brings years of professional experience around dating, relationships, intimacy, and communications - with a Jewish lens - in a safe and inviting way. Miriam isn't just a matchmaker, she's your biggest cheerleader. Miriam provides much needed warmth and comfort to the process of finding your special someone.
Community Member
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Luv with Lev has such a thoughtful approach to making matches. I came away from my first match feeling encouraged by the fact that other people like me exist here in the DMV! Even though my dating journey is ongoing, I continue with more hope and self-knowledge than before--and that's because of the experience that Luv with Lev made possible.
Matchmaking Participant, 30-year-old demisexual woman
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I have had a very meaningful and positive experience working with Miriam. She has introduced me to genuinely kind and compatible women that I had not met on dating apps or at local Jewish events. It is very clear that she truly listened to what I was looking for in a partner. I really appreciate the thoughtfulness and care that she put into each match.
Matchmaking Participant, 29-year-old man
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Fill out the form below, and we’ll reach out to invite them to create a profile and get plugged into the Luv with Lev community. If they end up being a great match for someone, we’ll send you a thank-you gift!
